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Christine Richardson's avatar

Interesting piece, Robert. Really makes one think. I'm far more in tune with nature than most, and I think I'd like to go back in time, but no running water? I've never even considered it. My husband and I will eventually move to Belize, and we intend to scale way back on our conveniences and material 'needs.' But what I'm picturing is still more luxurious than what most Belizeans have. And as you say, they seem far happier than most Westerners. Even if we don't want them, those Western expectations are still there, somewhere in our minds, and I don't imagine we can ever get rid of them. I've worked with a lot of Mexican immigrants throughout my life, and being around them always brought out a certain type of envy. They always seemed so content and easy-going, no matter how hard the work was, or how long they'd been there, or how hot it was. No matter what was going on around them, they were smiling and joking around, just grateful to be alive and employed. And somewhere nearby were their frowning American coworkers. No matter how hard I try, I don't know if I'm capable of experiencing that same level of contentment.

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Dear Robert, how this resonates with me. This coming from a man presently unemployed since April, 2023, and who has every convenience, in terms of survival at least. But this also means I seek ways to connect with nature, with that connection (often) being the only purpose, and I fantasize regularly about living closer to the Earth. Nature is truly wondrous, and I don't agree with how we destroy it for this convenience. And I don't believe the convenience brings us more joy, only allows more time to fill, usually with work. Most people are so obsessed with money... there's always a void to fill... meanwhile, my outdoor walks (generally ranging 1-3 hours, with the occasional 4-5) could nary be replaced. What we have doesn't feel like progress to me, only forced change. I wouldn't doubt that certain ancient societies lost to our annals lasted much longer, with less "progress" as we recognize it, simply through the prioritization of natural well-being, for the Earth and ourselves. Most jobs today are unhealthy for the Earth and the worker, while the product is unhealthy for the consumer alike. This isn't to say I don't appreciate any modern inventions, especially as life wouldn't be the same without my Marshall amplifier to plug the Ibanez into... as much as I love playing unplugged too... but how nature is wondrous. And a great part of me is desperate to learn how to live with it more closely. More harmoniously. And perhaps someday I'll work it out. I truly appreciated this read.

I'm still thinking about: "We know we should be showing up with truth, society says so, but we’re somewhat confused as to how we’re supposed to it in the authorised fashion. Once again, issues and actions that society should be addressing as a whole, are being are being imposed on the individual."

This has also been heavily on my mind lately, as I feel powerless to change things that can only be impacted by the involvement/withdrawal of many others with me, yet endeavour to make a change anyway. I myself not living the life I believe I should be living is a gigantic obstacle however, I'm realizing presently... so yeah, it's a whole thing. I have so few needs, and happiness comes to me easily, the more aligned I live with my beliefs. I'm confident I can pull it off, if I learn the ways. I can certainly set an intention of it.

You're awesome, man, thank you for sharing this. I'll review my notes before meditating tonight. I started again yesterday. Take care for now.

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